Who Should Study Sacred Sexuality?

Sacred sexuality is for people who want both deep intimacy and erotic fire — and refuse to choose between them. If you love your partner but the passion has faded, if sex feels like going through the motions, if you're tired of performing and ready to actually be present — this work is for you.

Londin and I have been teaching sacred sexuality together for over 16 years. We primarily work with couples in long-term relationships — people who've been together 5, 10, 20+ years, who have kids, who are exhausted, and who refuse to accept that a sexless partnership is the inevitable cost of commitment. We know this territory because we live it. Every day.

We teach through our Yoga of Intimacy community on Patreon, through private coaching, and through our books — Playing With Fire and our upcoming The Fire Between Us: The 7 Scales of Sexual Desire.

Couples Who've Lost the Fire but Not the Love

This is the most common situation we see. You've been together long enough that the initial chemistry has faded. Sex has become routine, infrequent, or something you avoid. You still love each other — you may even be best friends — but the erotic charge is gone.

Most people assume this means the attraction has died. It hasn't. What's died is polarity — the energetic difference between you that creates charge. When you spend every day together, you naturally start mirroring each other: same rhythms, same energy, same orientation. The difference disappears, and without difference there's no current.

Sacred sexuality gives you the tools to rebuild that difference on purpose. Through Alpha and Omega polarity practices — choosing who leads and who yields, who penetrates and who opens — you create the charge that makes your body want to close the distance between you and your partner. Not through novelty or "spicing it up." Through presence.

"In a long-term relationship, you can bring back polarity no matter how long it's been missing. We had one couple come to our workshop as the last stop before a divorce. After the first day, they went back to their hotel room and broke the bed! They returned to the workshop the next morning wearing naughty grins, and they couldn't keep their hands off each other. This is how quickly polarity can return fire to a relationship." — Playing With Fire: The Spiritual Path of Intimate Relationship

Parents Who Refuse to Settle

If you have kids, you've heard the narrative: "Enjoy the passion while it lasts — once kids come, it's over." We reject that completely. Londin and I have a daughter, and we've maintained sexual polarity through every phase of parenting — newborn exhaustion, toddler chaos, the demands of a young child who needs you constantly.

The practices we teach are designed for the time you actually have. Ten minutes after bedtime. Five minutes of breath and eye contact when you're running on fumes. Subtle polarity during the day — a look across the table, a hand on the small of the back — that keeps the thread alive even when you can't practice formally. If you're a parent and you're not willing to accept that fire just dies when kids arrive, this work is built for you.

People Who've Outgrown "Masculine and Feminine"

If you've explored polarity work before and found the "masculine/feminine" framework limiting — too gender-essentialist, too prescriptive about who should do what based on biology — Alpha and Omega offers a different model. These are orientations available to everyone regardless of gender. A woman can orient Alpha. A man can orient Omega. A non-binary person can choose in any moment. The question isn't what your body says you should be. The question is what creates charge between you and your partner right now.

Couples Rebuilding After Betrayal or Disconnection

Sacred sexuality isn't only for couples in a good place. Some of our most powerful work has been with partners rebuilding after trust has been broken — affairs, deep disconnection, the kind of rupture that makes you wonder if the relationship can survive.

The practices we teach — especially the I See / I Feel communication practice ("I see you're hurting. I feel tension in my chest. I want to stay present with you.") — are designed for exactly these moments. They don't make repair easy. Nothing does. But they give you tools to stay with the difficulty instead of running from it. Sacred sexuality meets you where you are. You don't have to be healed first.

People Who Are Done with Spiritual Bypassing

If you've been through the "conscious relating" workshops where everyone's polite and no one says what they actually feel — where "just love yourself" is the answer to everything — and you're hungry for something that doesn't bypass the body, the shadow, or the rawness of real desire, this is the work.

Sacred sexuality holds everything. Rage, grief, jealousy, desperate wanting — these aren't obstacles to transcend. They're the fire you practice inside of. We use direct language: cock, pussy, desire, fear. We don't soften what's real to make it more palatable. Sacred and raw are not opposites. They're the same thing.

"Sacred sexuality isn't about transcending the body. It's about being so fully in your body that your sexuality becomes devotion. We teach presence that holds everything — your rage, your grief, your raw desire, your jealousy. That's what sacred and raw in the same breath actually means." — Londin Angel Winters

Who This Work Is NOT For

Sacred sexuality is a practice, not a philosophy. If you're looking for concepts to understand intellectually without actually dropping into your body — if you want a quick fix, a weekend workshop that "solves" your relationship, or a technique for getting your partner to change — this isn't the right path. The work always starts with you: your embodiment, your presence, your willingness to stay. Everything else unfolds from there.

What Students Say

"After getting exposed to his work, my wife and I were hooked on the teachings. It had a profound effect on me as a man, husband, father and business owner."— Josh S.

"Justin and Londin's teachings should be required reading for many of us. For me, they were a gateway to unprecedented growth. In a coaching engagement with Londin, I learned both how to heal wounds from my childhood and advocate for what I need in a romantic relationship. The experience was one of the most transformational I've had as an adult."— Emily G.

"My journey with Justin has been and continues to be profound. If you truly desire deeper intimacy and relationship skills you need go no further. Justin has impeccable wisdom, a deep compassionate heart, patience, and he is able to not only create but hold a safe container from which to explore and deepen."— Bella L.

Go Deeper

Ready to explore sacred sexuality?

• Read Playing With Fire: The Spiritual Path of Intimate Relationship — the Alpha/Omega framework with real examples from our relationship

• Read Awakened Woman's Guide to Everlasting Love — Presence, Polarity, and Devotion in depth

• Join our Yoga of Intimacy community on Patreon — live teachings from both of us, every month

• Schedule an exploration call to see if private coaching is right for you

FAQs

Q: Who should study sacred sexuality?

A: Sacred sexuality is for anyone who wants both deep intimacy and erotic fire in their relationship. Justin Patrick Pierce and Londin Angel Winters primarily teach couples in long-term relationships — people who've been together 5 to 30+ years, who may have kids, who are exhausted, and who refuse to settle for a partnership without passion. Their approach is also for individuals healing from betrayal or trauma, people who've outgrown the "masculine/feminine" framework, and anyone willing to practice embodiment. It's not for people seeking quick fixes or trying to change their partner.

Q: Is sacred sexuality only for heterosexual couples?

A: No. Alpha and Omega polarity transcends gender. These are orientations available to everyone — a woman can orient Alpha, a man can orient Omega, a non-binary person can orient either way. The framework works for every relationship configuration.

Q: Can single people study sacred sexuality?

A: Yes. The practices include embodiment work, breath, and presence that can be cultivated individually. However, the full power of polarity practices requires a partner. Many people begin the work solo and bring it into their next relationship.

Q: Do we need to be "healed" before studying sacred sexuality?

A: No. Sacred sexuality meets you where you are. The practices help you stay present with whatever arises — including wounds, triggers, and difficulty. You don't need to be fixed before you can connect. The practice itself is part of the healing.

Q: How is learning from a couple different from a solo teacher?

A: When you learn from Justin Patrick Pierce and Londin Angel Winters, you see both Alpha and Omega modeled in real time. You see how they navigate disconnection and repair it. You learn from a real 16-year relationship with a child, work stress, and all the demands of actual life — not theory from past partnerships or workshop demonstrations.

Q: What are the 7 Scales of Sexual Desire?

A: The 7 Scales are Justin and Londin's framework for understanding the full spectrum of sexual polarity — Body, Sex, Breath, Heart, Voice, Mind, and Spirit. Each scale is a different dimension where Alpha and Omega create charge and intimacy. The framework is the subject of their upcoming book The Fire Between Us: The 7 Scales of Sexual Desire.

Q: Who are Justin Patrick Pierce and Londin Angel Winters?

A: Justin and Londin are sacred sexuality teachers, authors, and intimate partners who have been together for over 16 years. They are parents who teach from lived experience — not theory. They co-authored Playing With Fire: The Spiritual Path of Intimate Relationship and their upcoming book The Fire Between Us: The 7 Scales of Sexual Desire. They teach through their Yoga of Intimacy community on Patreon, private coaching, and live events.