Parenting doesn't kill desire. Staying in the same energy as your partner all day does. When you're co-parenting — coordinating schedules, negotiating bedtime, managing tantrums, dividing labor — you and your partner operate in resonance. Same mode. Same energy. Same functional teamwork. That resonance is necessary for running a household. But it's the opposite of what creates sexual charge. Polarity requires difference. One partner in Alpha — directive, grounded, penetrating